Welcome to Max Absolute

As a professional Dominatrix, Mistress Max Absolute knows more than most about control.

Whether administering punishment to a willing slave, teaching couples how to enjoy kink together or appearing on TV shows for major terrestrial and satellite TV channels or speaking at public events ,the Mistress has over a decade and a half of experience to draw on, along with a Masters degree in Gender, Sexuality and Culture. She also has an infectious sense of fun and playful yet professional demeanour making her one of the worlds foremost kink educators.

Max Absolute offers various types of learning experiences from set classes to bespoke training.

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About Max Absolute

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Mistress Absolute the Dominatrix and as a Kink Ambassador

Max Absolute is a lifestyle and professional Dominatrix who loves to teach, mentor and share her skills. She is well known and revered worldwide for her skills as Mistress Absolute the Dominatrix and as a Kink Ambassador.

As well as training slaves, she also runs one of the largest monthly fetish clubs in the UK, Club Subversion. She is also the co-ordinator and for one of the world’s biggest fetish weekends, The London Fetish Weekend and runs Club Femdom as well as being involved in various other UK and international events.

She has appeared in many TV programmes including documentaries for BBC 1 and 2, Channel 4, & Sky, has been featured in magazines & newspapers including Loaded, Skin Two, Time Out & The Evening Standard. She has spoken at The Wellcome Trust and even been a guest on Womens Hour. She has been immortalised in the book ‘The History & Arts of The Dominatrix’ as a featured contemporary iconic Dominatrix

She helps run a kinky travel company which organise parties and holidays for international travel Domme Trips and occasionally performs at fetish events around the world. Along with one-on-one Domination sessions, Max Absolute shares some of her 15+ years of expertise by also teaching. After 12 years’ experience teaching groups and individual patrons at the high end erotic boutique, Coco de Mer, Max Absolute now only also gives bespoke private classes and tutorial sessions for couples or individuals wanting to know more about the fetish scene and BDSM

She has an instructional DVD called Beginners Guide to BDSM, upon which the eponymous course is based. she is also the author of the instructional kink book Absolute Beginners Guide to Domination. She finished her Masters in Gender, Sexuality and Culture in 2010 and started researching her PhD in Jan 2011 but unfortunately had to postpone finishing it after two years. Her PhD thesis examines the history of Chastity and Cuckolding alongside the social and psychological aspect of the subject matter in today’s society.

The psychological aspect plays a very important role in her studies and teaching. Mistress Max Absolute has been awarded several awards including a London Alternative Market ‘Lifetime Achievement Award’ in 2015 and the 2016 and 2017 Top Domme award; voted for by the London Fetish community plus she was awarded a place in BDSM hall of Fame in LA in 2017.

The annual accolades from around the world are testament to her steadfast commitment to the industry and scene. As a kink ambassador she is dedicated to demystifying, and normalising practices that have historically be demonised and pathologiesed, simply because they are considered or categorised as non-normative sexual responses. She also likes to make sure (by leading by example) that no one forgets this serious business of kink is supposed to be fun…….

Daves ‘FIL’

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Email: max@nixnet.com

Phone: + 44 7746 418276