Books and DVDs

I currently have one instructional book and one instructional video.  Whilst I would always suggest ‘hands on’ instruction at some point in your journey book or instructional videos are always a good place to start.

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The ‘Beginner’s Guide to BDSM’ is a 45-minute dowload / video. Mistress Absolute leads a couple of novices, Mike and Jane, through the basics and sets them on a path to enjoying their kinky sexuality in a way that’s fun, safe and provides an attractive doorway to the fetish / BDSM world.

Click HERE to download the video (you will be taken to another site where you can start the process)


Mistress Absolute created the Absolute Beginner’s Guides to help educate sexual adventurers in the field of kink, with original full-colour illustrations by Satine Phoenix. The Absolute Beginner’s Guide to… Domination provides clear and concise information for the neophyte kinkster.

They present alternative ways of finding pleasure in and out of the bedroom and offer tools to explore different facets of the reader’s sexuality.

The print edition is available via Amazon



The book is available on all Amazon worldwide portals – just search for ‘Beginner’s Guide to Domination’ and the title will pop up first!


INTERESTED IN ROPE but can’t get to a class? CLICK HERE and let Esinem, who is well known for his teaching both in the UK and internationally and the co-organiser of the London Festival of the Art of Japanese Bondage and BOUND, Europe’s premier monthly shibari event guide you through your first experience or, if you are super keen and know you want  to be able to practice rope bondage then you can start a whole course HERE and learn from a fine selection of the worlds top rope teachers.